Pain after surgical abortion mumsnet. i felt nauseous, very faint and very weak.
- Pain after surgical abortion mumsnet Dec 15, 2021 · Hey ladies, I'm just posting this question in the hope someone knows the answer as I am abit worried. I didn't have any pain during the abortion but did heavy bleed for a few days then light peroid type bleeding for a few weeks. Jul 9, 2024 · One medical that didn't work & landed me in hospital very ill. 9% after a D&C yet it also says it’s a ‘very rare’ syndrome? I have since researched medical management but the pain looks to be unbearable and I worry that I’ll need a D&C if that wasn’t successful. Nov 29, 2023 · Lots of us in this or similar positions. Bleeding is more or less under control, but pain seems to have got worse. Jul 17, 2019 · Hello I’ve chosen to go ahead with an abortion , this is not the right time for me to have another child . Nurse said it’s completely normal to bleed for anywhere from 3 days to 6 weeks and everyone’s different. Whereas with a surgical abortion once it's done it's all done. I had the second dose of pills (inserted in the vagina myself) at around 3pm but nothing happened until around 9pm. My sore boobs have only just gone down and feel relatively normal now but I have heard this can take 10 days or longer to settle. My period came back 7 weeks after the abortion. For the surgical, I was only given laughing gas and I most definitely did feel pain, nothing close to delivering a baby, but still pain. Oct 28, 2020 · Hi all. Feb 14, 2022 · Husband was supportive but inclined for the abortion. I hope everything goes well for your daughter. I’ve had one medical abortion and one surgical abortion , they were nearly 6 and 11 years ago now . Been trying for six years (unexplained infertility)and this was my first pregnancy. Xx Mar 16, 2022 · I have read a few horror stories online - but I have also read some who have described the pain as a bad period pain… I took my first tablet yesterday and have had some mild cramping, but no bleeding or nausea, like I was warned of. Mar 18, 2024 · I had an abortion last Wednesday and I’m not coping. Ive had no issues conceiving, if anything i seem to be super fertile. I have lost my baby at 11 week . Aug 20, 2022 · I had a surgical abortion a few weeks ago under sedation (not GA but I was not awake). But the whole 'process' after taking the second pill took about 5 hours of excruciating pain for me from start to finish (but it didn't start until 2 hours after taking the last pill as well) and I needed the following day off to recover mentally as well. The fact you're getting a scan is great. 6 days later I was allowed home after 4 hours of surgery to repair my womb. I managed to get a cancellation for a telephone consultation with bpas and a surgical appointment the week after. This usually goes away within 1 day. May 25, 2019 · I had a surgical at 10 weeks and 4 days. A few hours later I started bleeding heavily, passing clots. The pain then ended. ) Do not douche for 1 week. Jun 20, 2023 · Aww fingers crossed! I literally had my surgical today and my god I wish I hadn’t read stories as that just made it worse. I obviously just want to get the procedure over with but having read a few people’s stories of MVPs I’m really scared of it being a scarring experience. I think if it's less than 5mn (sorry unsure exactly) then they can give you the tablets again or wait for your period. I was fine after a week. I feel terrible however I know Iv made the right decision as I work full time and my son is quite poorly. This complication will cause serious consequences to the patients’ health, specifically their reproductive health such as anemia, genital tracts infections, uterine rupture Feb 2, 2023 · Straight after the abortion, I think I was still feeling the effects of the drugs they gave me, I didn’t really feel much. Dec 28, 2017 · I had an abortion recently (already have one DS 12mo) and am at college. Please refer to the 'Pain control' section on the Abortion pill (includes abortion pill at home and in clinic up to 10 weeks) page, for information about managing your pain If these medicines do not control your pain, please call the clinic or us directly on 0300 333 68 28 (or +44 1789 508 210 ). My 2 options are to have an MVP under local anaesthetics next Thursday or wait until the 12th of May for a general. I’m 41, I’ve got 2 lovely DC aged 5 and 3 and a supportive DH. I don't know what I was expecting really. I’m getting all 4 pills given to me at the same time a Remaining remnants after surgical abortion: This happens in cases where there are still fetal remains in the uterus after abortion, which reflects an unsuccessful surgery. During that time I was kind of looking forward to it, please don’t get me wrong, I wanted the whole chapter to leave behind me. I was looking forward to not being pregnant anymore. Everyone experiences it differently. Bleeding started within an hour of taking the second pill and was back to normal monthly levels by the following morning. After the surgery I felt extremely maternal for two days and longed to have a baby. My daughter is 6 months old and the fath Mar 27, 2024 · @KittyFantastica Hi, firstly I'm so sorry for your loss. Apr 14, 2016 · It's been a month and half after I've had the op for the abortion i was 11 weeks gone, near enough 12 and had the marina coil put in straight after. The cold I had the day after was the main reason I was in bed. Tomorrow I am booked in for a surgical termination under local anaestheti Jan 14, 2019 · IIRC the pain was still quite intense the day after. I'm 11+2 weeks and have a surgical abortion booked for tomorrow. It took me a week just to go back to work and when I did, I bled gushing amounts of blood and huge clots. Stomach also bloated, whereas was almost flat by the time I went in for surgery. I know I made the decision for the right reasons, but I do feel very emotional, I’ve cried a lot, and just feel guilt, grief and a sense of Mar 12, 2013 · Hi, I posted previously explaining I've just found out I'm pregnant and due to a number of reasons (financial problems, would need bigger house, comin Apr 1, 2022 · I had a surgical abortion 2 and a half weeks ago, due to my severe anxiety. Jan 21, 2018 · I have a medical abortion booked for 9 days time (i’ll be 5 and half weeks when I get it done). It was fine. I had an surgical abortion 6weeks+3days ago for personal reasons. Aug 3, 2024 · so i have unfortunately had to have three abortions. I had the mirena fitted after a surgical termination & I had very similar symptoms (odd discharge, pain etc) and had an infection. Had to walk across a bit of London to get to station, and she was a bit out of it and I felt like a body guard ensuring she didn't get bumped into. A little pain but more like a pinch for a few days. Oct 22, 2017 · I don't know if you have other children, but I would liken it to the first few days of postnatal bleeding immediate after giving birth. Mar 3, 2024 · So I’ve recently had a surgical abortion I was 12 weeks and 3 days I’ve been bleeding for a week and 2 days I very much regret my choice and decision, and for the people who have had surgical abortion and tried to get pregnant straight after I was wondering how long it had taken to conceive again? May 10, 2015 · What I feel I do need to talk about is the experience of the abortion itself. Hope all goes well for you Aug 1, 2020 · Or did it just say 3+. Only you know why you want to terminate and what your situation is like. May 31, 2022 · I had a surgical termination at 12/13 weeks. I took my first tablet last night around 8pm. What to Expect After a First Trimester Surgical Abortion (or D & C) Self-Care • Be sure to take all of your antibiotics as they were prescribed for you. Mar 19, 2022 · @Wins22 I had a procedure for a missed miscarriage which I think is the same as the procedure that you have had . I'm in a similar situation now. everything w Jan 3, 2024 · I had the surgery yesterday about 3:30pm and by 5:30pm I was awake and back with my boyfriend on the ward eating and drinking, the surgery itself only took 15 minutes I was told. It started with cramps that steadily got worse so I took paracetamol and ibuprofen which helped but didn't get rid of all the pain. Log in to Mumsnet and join the conversation Dec 7, 2023 · I'm looking for success stories where a second surgery was needed to clear a miscarriage, and the surgery actually worked. All very straight forward, small amount of bleeding on the day followed by a honey/caramel coloured discharge everyday since. How normal is this? Sep 7, 2023 · Sorry your going three this that sounds like the product came out well hopefully so i actually had to have a mva Thursday for my products they told me on first scan was 21 mm to small for surgery after going back multiple times with pain seeing different gynes getting fobbed off with its soo small it will come out with period you have a negative test its fine when im telling them im not going Apr 30, 2010 · Please get checked out. Jan 14, 2020 · I have just been to bpas and I am 8 weeks pregnant. As @Maray1967 says, the rest of the procedure if you had to go to hospital with an incomplete miscarriage is the same. I Do remember being extremely tired, exhausted - and needed to rest for several days. Bleeding continued, symptoms remained (although not so bad) & pregnancy test still positive. Took the first tablet Friday and the 4 yesterday. Jul 8, 2023 · I had a medical abortion in 2005 and had cramps about two hours after the first pill (11am). Regarding regret, no one can help you there. Feb 25, 2023 · My tests were like yours after the initial termination - almost as dark as the control line & remained like that until the second surgery. I just wanted to feel good and myself again. I'm supposed to take the oral tablet in about 10mins (24hrs before appointment) and can find very little information on what happens after mifepristone. Dec 20, 2018 · I'm a massive worrier and think I might have an infection. For my medical abortion (age 19) I was in extreme pain with very heavy bleeding, eventually admitted to a&e and then passed everything the next night whilst on a ward. How long will I have to stay at the treatment centre? I'm having a co Apr 17, 2018 · Surgery on a recently pregnant uterus can cause scar tissue also, it’s rare but a risk. I was 13 weeks at the time of the procedure which was delayed to to a lack of appointments and being unable to decide what to do. Bled very heavily 4 weeks after and had positive pregnancy test. Lots of bleeding & pain. One surgical with no anaesthetic which was incredibly traumatic & painful. I personally feel that it was a complete failed abortion and I still had the full baby inside me after the first surgery. Jun 22, 2021 · After much heartache and lots of conversations with my partner I decided to have a medical abortion. This was after about 8 days. My first normal period is due sometime in January. It tapered off to light bleeding after that. Mar 7, 2024 · Hi I don't think I've ever added a thread, but I did search the archives when I was making my decision, so thought I'd add my experience to help anyon Jun 4, 2024 · I had given birth, natural birth, to three kids and nothing compares to that pain, nothing at all. I took one a day or 2 after the second surgery & it was so so much lighter. I took all the steps for the abortion just somehow waiting for a sign that never came. I was quite groggy after and they said I'd need to be home for 24 hours. This was Monday evening. She will be fine xx Nov 3, 2022 · I called up bpas, after some difficult consideration, religion wise, but decided I couldn’t have a baby yet due to my ill physical and mental health, who didn’t have any availability locally until after the 10 week mark had passed so I had to go for surgical which honestly scared me at the thought. Apr 21, 2022 · Hey guys. There will be better days again. After describing my symptoms he diagnosed me with a uterine infection following the surgery 😣. Even the taxi driver who drove me back to hotel after was an absolute gent. It’s just that for me and some women it turned out to be the wrong choice . I had a surgical abortion with GA (I live in another country) and the minute after it happend i felt calm for a second and then regret. It has been 5 weeks now since I last had sex. I know of 2 other people who had a surgical termination in the past and both weren’t able to get pregnant again, one had to do IVF and the other adopted. You have so much more to see and do and experience in life and you have people in your life who love and value you. Due to the virus the only way your able to have an abortion at the moment is via the pill. I know you only wanted unemotional facts, but I just wanted to say that the medical abortion is not pleasant. It is the biggest regret of my life and I will never forgive myself for ma Dec 2, 2024 · The risk looks to be 30. The things to watch out for is if there’s a foul smell or if you have a temp or bad pain that won’t go away. The bleeding took twelve days to stop but wasn't unpleasant. This includes tampons and douche. Nov 17, 2014 · I had a surgical abortion on Saturday under general anaesthetic. Apr 26, 2020 · Had a surgical removal under local anaesthetic (spinal block) on Friday afternoon so just over 48 hours ago. I just did not want to be a mother Feb 20, 2018 · Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Plenty of bleeding afterwards (like after childbirth - need lots of those thick maternity pads) and lasted for about two weeks (IIRC). Not the same as my children are still very young (4&2) but I found myself unexpectedly pregnant in early Feb and had an abortion. I was sad and for a while I got a bit baby obsessed. So I have a 1 year old and I'm currently 15 week Jul 1, 2021 · as the abortion was not that long ago this may be why there is still a positive result I had one in lockdown in October (non surgical ) and it took about 8+weeks before I got a negative result and my first period didn’t come till after that not long before i had the negative result a large lump of tissue removed itself when on the toilet. Sep 1, 2022 · after a whole movie and a half, (3 hours, ish) cramping had gotten much worse. I came home last night after a surgical abortion as the scan they did at the hospital showed retained product. Clinic said that if GA she'd have had to stay in London overnight. I wanted general anaesthetic but they told me I can’t have it and they stopped doing generals. I keep playing it over and over in my head. On the 6th of October (so 3 weeks ago yesterday) I had a surgical abortion. Please go and get it checked out. ) Do not use perfumes, bubbles, or oils in bath water. Had a scan yesterday which showed some retained products - not sure how much but she said it wasn’t terrible! I’m booked in for surgery next week with a scan first incase it has changed. Ended up needing a surgical one even after I'd passed the foetus into the ward toilet. I wasn’t aware that my main local hospital actually did abortions, it was nothing I was aware of before. Dec 29, 2017 · I got an infection about a week after the procedure but this was cleared up with strong anti biotics. Jun 16, 2020 · Having an abortion is your personal choice, I think under the pain isn't terrible, feels like a period but the bleeding can last up to a week, I would recommend paracetamol and hot water bottles/baths and the pain shouldn't be too bad. My notifications don’t seem to be working. Jun 18, 2021 · Hi, new member here. This was my biggest fear as I read up before hand that infection following surgical abortion can leave scar tissue / narrowed tubes and affect future fertility. I was so so set on the procedure and from the moment I found out I just couldn’t fathom having Apr 4, 2022 · I slept for a few hours then woke in pain. Have you thought about what you will do if you are further along than you think you are and you need a surgical abortion? Or if you are even past 24 weeks? There is a big difference between a 6 week pregnancy and a 10 week even. Nov 21, 2023 · Well, it is a miscarriage. Emotionally I have been up and down but this was expected. I was 6 weeks pregnant and from the start of the bleeding to the end I was never in more pain than a period and mostly had no pain. l but you seem in your post to be venting your anger at a situation that you have to wait fir. I then had labour type pains for a few hours, they were very strong despite me taking codeine and paracetamol. At around 9:30 I felt a small pop and a gush which I assume were my waters and baby had come out but no clots or bleeding. The surgical one (which i chose because I felt that in Nov 15, 2024 · I have had 4 miscarriages 1 live birth who is now 2, I don't want anymore but the pill had failed, so abortion is the only route to go down, I'm 11 weeks and only reason it's taken this long is I had a big bleed few weeks ago and thought I had miscarriaged, can you tell me your experiences of the surgery I'm planning on being awake Jan 6, 2020 · Hi all, so today after a few very hard weeks of thinking and crying. Jan 15, 2021 · I had a surgical after a miscarriage so same procedure obviously. Feb 20, 2018 · The idea of opting for this sort of abortion rather than medical abortion is that with medical abortion it can lead to heavy. I Nov 25, 2024 · Abortion is such a traumatic and emotional experience but please try and remember you were ok before this and you can be ok after this. Begin using your hormonal birth control, even though you are not having sex yet. Jan 15, 2018 · When I woke up initially I had horrific pain they said it was the uterus contracting but they give you pain meds and then it was all over. The bleeding was light some days and heavy at times with what felt like gushing so I can understand you being worried. • Week 1 after your abortion: Do not have sex or put anything in your vagina. 😔 I haven't had any pain not since the actual abortion took place. i didnt have the strength May 13, 2019 · You can’t drive yourself home after a general anaesthetic. We have decided to terminate but I a Mar 10, 2024 · I currently have 11mm retained tissue was left after surgery for miscarriage on September 6. If you're taking time into account, the surgical is over in minutes and I only had to stay for an hour after, whereas medical took hours and I was a wreck for days. In a weird way it was the best worst experience of my life. Jul 14, 2011 · I had the surgical option nearly 18 years ago at the age of 24 after the pill failed and I was in and out the same day. I have since experienced awful trapped wind pain in my abdomen and -tmi- rectal area. Feb 9, 2022 · I conceived 3 weeks after my surgical abortion, 34 weeks now and no problems so far! I remember being afraid it would hurt my fertility but the nurse talked me through loads of research and studies and if it was done by a certified doctor etc. I’ve never had an abortion, but I did have a miscarriage that didn’t happen as it should have an needed surgical intervention. i felt nauseous, very faint and very weak. 5 hours stronger pain and passed a large clot, since then very minimal pain, bleeding now reduced a lot, boobs less sore and bloating reduced. I was 6 weeks and it felt like really, really bad period pain. Oct 27, 2017 · Hi I had the medical abortion on Monday and had the consultation and procedure the same day at bpas. For me, this was incredibly painful, others I have heard have felt it was just like period cramps. Jan 2, 2023 · anyway sorry to hear this isn’t going to plan for you. Recovered though and had my son 3 years later. I also had a medical termination 9 days ago. Oct 30, 2019 · I’ve had an abortion at about 11 weeks, and also a d&c after a missed mc. I found out I was pregnant over a week ago and a half and instant Aug 2, 2022 · I'm having the procedure done through BPAS. Feb 13, 2024 · Has anyone taken the pill they give you to take before a surgical abortion (Mifepristone 200g) and then changed their mind and had a successful pregna Mar 5, 2020 · Thank you to everyone who took the time to reply and thanks so much @anonacatchat. Jan 10, 2019 · Hi I was just wondering has anyone had a surgical abortion awake and what was your experience. I had an abortion a few weeks ago. Mar 14, 2018 · 5 weeks pregnant due to contraception failure and have decided to terminate. Have back ache, and hips, side, and stomach hurts. . We decided not to keep it but then decided to keep it as I was worried that I'd always regret it and that our reasons weren't 'good enough'. Jun 19, 2020 · I'm glad I found this thread (but sorry you are in this position). Dec 10, 2020 · Hi everyone, I am really wanting my 3rd baby now but I'm sorry worried my surgical abortion has effected my ability to carry a baby :(I have two beautiful children ages 3&5 I had no problems carrying them, then I fell pregnancy in may 2019 but due to severe sickness I wasn't able to look after my children and depression soon kicked in, I wasn't thinking clearly and I got rid of my baby :( I Apr 9, 2022 · Basically in February (8weeks ago) I had a medical abortion at 5 weeks pregnant. the pain kind of took a hold of me before i realised what was happening. Apr 26, 2022 · This is why I’m still pro choice and would never tell a women not to get an abortion. Oct 6, 2024 · I had a medical abortion due to health issues. I most certainly don’t feel pregnant. It was the next day when the emotions kicked in, yesterday was the worst. May 8, 2018 · So sorry you're going through this. It was the right thing for me. Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Hoping to be going home the same night. How many weeks past abortion were you when had to take more tablets? Did you have a scan. Jan 13, 2023 · After having my appointment rescheduled multiple times and realising I would have to travel at least 2 hours to have the surgical option I decided to look at other more local choices. I was 8/9 weeks when i had the abortion, i went for an appointment to discuss my options etc, and booked medical abortion. I needed to wear maternity pads. I answered lots medical questions and discussed options. Apr 15, 2015 · I agree Psipsina -- I had an infection after a surgical abortion, had exactly the same symptoms (sharp pains, heavy bleeding a couple of days after the procedure) and was in hospital for five days on IV antibiotics. You might have seen some of my previous posts I have had a failed surgical abortion. On about day 19 I woke and had flooded a pad, very heavy bleeding and clotting that day and onto A+E at night. Jan 19, 2020 · I have 2 children after IVF and fell pregnant 6 weeks after my son was born NATURALLY. You will honestly be fine don't worry 🌺 Oct 29, 2017 · I found out I was pregnant, exactly a week ago - my period's often super temperamental and I'd waited for 2 weeks before taking the test! My boyfriend Jun 27, 2022 · I had an early surgical abortion on Saturday with LA and it went well. Regular pain relief is important as is your DD being able to communicate when she’s in pain. After advice or similar experiences please. Was a long time ago but recall vaguely that pain afterwards was like bad period pain. Apr 7, 2024 · Hi, so I had a medical abortion 5 weeks ago now, all my tests had been very strong postive since even the test from the clinic. I did see clumps and lumps come out. I know now that coils shouldn't be fitted at the same time as terminations because they can push bacteria into the uterus. Sep 18, 2019 · I also had a surgical abortion at 12 weeks. i am going ahead with a surgical abortion today whilst awake. Apr 19, 2021 · Hi @elaine31. So I was booked In for a day procedure. (For more information on why douching is not recommended, please visit Ask the Experts at Planned Parenthood . Recovery room staff were so kind and pleasant. Good on you for recognising you aren't able to support a child at this time, it's a hard decision to make. May 1, 2008 · Cramps started about 30 mins after taking the tablet. Dec 18, 2021 · Have you tried phoning for abortion counselling, I totally get your frustration at having to wait, particularly if your 100% an abortion is the right decision the waiting can be agony. after a few waves of very intense pain, i took double the dose of codeine & ibuprofen. I laid in bed during the process. Jun 2, 2015 · I have taken the 'abortion pills' (pessary only) recently for an incomplete miscarriage. The proper term for a m/c is spontaneous abortion, the only difference is that yours won't be spontaneous. Its been a very difficult decision but due to financial issues and just not feeling ready i have made this decision. Sep 23, 2023 · Hi everyone, Im 33 and recently had a SA (9days ago). Is there a chance it’s failed? Please be kind I’ve not stopped crying for weeks. I’m also on blood thinners, and also had the copper coil fitted at the same time as TOP. Strong contractions started after about an hour, and lasted a couple of hours - passed 'products of conception' quite early. I suffer with gestational diabetes and severe hypremesis in my previous pregnancies, and right away at 6 weeks it started again, I was bed bound and couldn’t eat or drink. For surgical/in-clinic abortions, do not use tampons for 1 week. Sep 8, 2023 · The vacuum aspiration is then carried out shortly after. Bad cramps and bright red very heavy flow now. I can't get a clear answer on this. I was sick after the general anaesthetic but otherwise fine. I had bad period pain for a few hours for which I took paracetamol with codeine but you can't use ibroferen. almost unbearable if im being honest. If I was given the choice at the start for surgical removal, that would 100% have been my go to. Cramping and pain for a few days. Though unfortunately I then bleed all over my bathroom floor a week later and had to go to an emergency appointment in the gynecology ward and got my cervix scrapped which was awful. I started bleeding about 3 hours after quite heavily for a few hours but by early afternoon and all of today I’ve barely had to change a pad. May 15, 2024 · But if the thought of another baby scares you and your struggling to see a future with a baby then I would go through with the termination. I chose a surgical abortion- awake, with local anaesthetic (I have a fear of GAs). Remember she won’t be pain free as she’s had an operation but her pain should be managed to help her recover. The whole procedure went smoothly and was over really quickly. Nov 14, 2024 · Some minimal pain which was managed with painkillers and I recovered quickly from the GA. It was done at home and the pregnancy test after 3 weeks showed it was negative. I still haven't had my period and me and my partner are trying to get pregnant again, we had been trying 2 days after the abortion. Log in to Mumsnet and join the conversation Feb 19, 2021 · I'm 7 weeks pregnant (so will be at least 8 by the time of the abortion) and I'm trying to decide whether to have the medical or the surgical option. I had a surgical abortion on Monday it went smoothly I had bleeding for a few hours then fe Aug 18, 2017 · Unfortunately I had to have another abortion at 7 weeks and opted for the surgical which was much better, I don't actually remember it but was given local anaesthetic. But I was so depressed after that. I was given misoprostal, but had no effect to remove any more. I was petrified I took the first pill yesturday. I’m still working through my feelings with a therapist but I’m completely fine physically. Jan 14, 2024 · @Rubie2024 so far fine, dull ache started after about an hour, bleeding started after about 4 hours, about 4. Sickness instantly stopped. Ended up having the surgery and I felt nothing. It’s short lived and over in less than two minutes but as I say for me, this was much worse than period pain. I'm also struggling to go to the toilet but can pass urine fine. Hope you can get in touch today & get a scan booked in as soon as you can. I want to avoid surgery. I know everyone is different with pain but it was over within minutes and all I felt was uncomfortable not any pain, any questions please ask away xx Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Jun 5, 2024 · Hi, sorry don’t know the technical name for this procedure so Apologies in advance if it offends anyone, I have one of these booked in after chickening out on my 2nd round of abortion tablets, just couldn’t do it at home for hours in end without a medical Nov 25, 2020 · I felt a bit guilty straight after my abortion but hormones and honestly now I feel nothing (I don't even really think about it unless something like this comes up) - the pain for me was like a bad period, I'd suggest pain killers, hot water bottle, chocolate and a film day - maybe ask someone to look after DD for the day and you take your time to recover May 18, 2021 · Pain killers wouldn't stay down so had to go without which is probably why it was so painful. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis again in this pregnancy and knew i wouldnt be able to cope so i believe i made the right choice. I then went into shock and had extreme pain after the procedure. Jun 27, 2023 · Hi all, apologies if this is a sensitive subject, or long winded! I found out I was pregnant after 2 ivf babies, naturally. Jan 14, 2023 · Hi all, I've been religiously reading on mumsnet to help with anxiety I am feeling. It was my first day back to work. I knew about the pregnancy from about 5 weeks and had an appointment to book the termination at 6wks so the waiting was the hardest part. Apr 21, 2022 · Due to a medical condition I can’t have a medical abortion, only surgical. Boy was I wrong. Mar 14, 2023 · Then I was ok again day 17/18 light bleeding. Managed to speak with a GP over the phone. If the abortion was carried out at a clinic, you do not 5 days ago · Women who may report less pain with a medication abortion include those who have experienced labor or given birth vaginally and women who have painful menstrual cramps every month, such as those 6 days ago · While two thirds (1,047) of respondents said they would choose a medical abortion if needed in future, around one in eight (13%; 202) said they would have a surgical abortion. Aug 2, 2019 · Hi OP, I feel your pain i really do I also had an abortion 5 months ago and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do! I still feel broken from it (although better than I was in the first few months) and although I didn’t really have another choice because of the relationship I was in and my own personal finances I still find myself thinking about my baby and how I would look now etc Nov 19, 2024 · I had a medical abortion (pills by post) just over 3 weeks ago. You not being here anymore is not the answer. I now feel faint when I stand up. Feb 4, 2022 · Sorry to hear that you've been suffering with pain. I was put fully under though so that was why. Really, really, seek medical advice urgently. How that was even possible is beyond me. This could be an infection. I'd suggest giving whoever you got the pills from a call - places like BPAS & MSI have aftercare support lines who should be able to help. Heat bag/hot water bottle. After an abortion, you may get: tummy cramps or pain for a few days; vaginal bleeding – this can last for several weeks after a medical or surgical abortion; The medicines used in a medical abortion can also cause diarrhoea and make you feel sick. And shouldn’t drive for 48 hours actually. And there’s not much help available after either , once it’s done it’s done . No cramping, very faint (VERY) spotting when I went to the loo for maybe 2 weeks after. Mar 6, 2023 · Had my surgical termination on 13th, so 4 days ago - have had only very minor brown spotting untill this evening. the pregnancy test they send you was negative at 3 weeks & period returned as usual pretty much exactly 4 weeks after I took the tablets. I hope it all goes smoothly for you Mar 14, 2017 · So this isnt easy to talk about and I no doubt will get some grief which I expect. Really scared. Oct 17, 2020 · Huge regret and grief after medical abortion, need some support :( 49 replies April9888 · 17/10/2020 16:20 Oct 10, 2023 · Equally it’s important your DD’s pain is managed so she can move around in bed and walk to the toilet. Hope you're doing ok. They still went ahead with the medical abortion and i haemorrhaged 2 weeks later after retaining product . (After a medical abortion/abortion pill, it is OK to use tampons immediately. May 10, 2019 · And then I woke up and it was all over. I can update after I take tomorrows (I have a low pain threshold, and will give an honest review!) Hope you are Sep 12, 2023 · Long story short well it is a long story but 23rd aug i made the worst decision to have a abortion at 9 weeks my anxiety got the best of me and now im just living with the consequences anyways took the medical pills frew bpas and passed pregnancy 24th heavy bleeding clots ect 28th aug ended up in a&e with 2cm retained products was offered the pills again which didnt do much still in pain now 3 Jul 1, 2023 · Skip to main content Skip to main navigation Skip to search Skip to talk navigation Advertisement Sep 29, 2024 · Skip to main content Skip to main navigation Skip to search Skip to talk navigation Advertisement. I had an itchy nose but no pain at all. On day 6 after, I suddenly had painful cramping and heavy gushing bleeding. A friend had surgical abortion and was only sedated. But yesterday I had an abortion a choice that wasnt made lightly May 4, 2019 · It may not be GA. Dec 8, 2013 · It was 1 ½ weeks later that the surgical termination took place. After an hour I still had no bleeding and by this point I was screaming and couldn't control myself over the pain. I had the procedure on Saturday (4 days ago) and for the past couple of days I've been getting period style cramps and sharp pain in my lower stomach/pelvic area, which similar to you feels like lots of pressure, especially when sitting on the toilet. Mar 31, 2024 · I started with a mild fever after posting this. i had my daughter at 19 and she is now 13 years old. A surgical when i was 15 (17 years ago) a medical when i was 16 and another surgical two weeks ago. I am now 4 days post abortion and I feel fine. It was a difficult decision with a roller coaster of emotions but after a week of thinking it over I decided to go ahead with the termination. Lots of pain relief, heavy flow pads or even the ones for bladder weakness. Jul 15, 2023 · Hi has anyone experienced shoulder tip pain after at home medical abortion? Apr 15, 2015 · Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Jan 9, 2021 · I had a medical abortion which was started on the roll at around 12 but br the time it got to doing it I was somewhere between there and 16 weeks. Was only in there 15 mins as was told on phone that I would have my scan and blood test but nope I got to go to another centre tomorrow for the scan and blood. Dec 28, 2022 · Aside from the couple of hours sickness with the second set of pills it was totally manageable, I could go about my daily life, look after the kids etc. Only lasted maybe 30 minutes. My second tablets are due this evening, I was just wondering, if you've had one before, would paracetamol be ok for the pain or will I need something stronger? I have a hot water bottle, Heavy period Mar 1, 2022 · Hi. It was suggested too small for more surgery. The D&C also meant that everything was removed. From what I had read, I understood that hopefully the pain would be limited- and over fairly quickly. then you will probably be absolutely fine. I had minimal after pain, it was basically just like a longer period but not a painful one. It hurts to stand or sit in certain ways and I get an extreme spasm in the area at points. Has anyone had any experiences of getting pregnant so soon after a abortion or is it most likley i will get my period first. Even better if you went on to have a healthy baby! I had surgery on 7 November to remove a MMC which was discovered at my 12 week scan. Sep 6, 2024 · I contacted them with an online form and received a phonecall back the next day. I brought her home by train. anyway let me know how your getting on 💐 and hope your ok x Dec 10, 2019 · There was light spotting for a further week after that. We are devastated. Mar 18, 2018 · I have also submitted a full complaint demanding answers on various things such as uterus appearing to be 11 weeks at the scan before the second surgery etc. I also happened to have had both surgical as well as medical abortion. The hours that followed I had light spotting but nothing since the first day. You are advised to wear pads only afterwards to reduce the risk of infection. I felt fine on Saturday and most of yesterday but yesterday afternoon I've started to Apr 13, 2015 · Thankyou for sharing your experience it's really helped me I was having the medical abortion but on the day found out I was too far gone, I was meant to have a surgical under sedation today but got into the treatment room and ended up bottling out as I was so scared I would feel everything , I'm now booked in for a surgical with a general Jun 30, 2022 · First set of tablets didn't do anything but not long after the second my waters broke, the pain was a bit like labor pains. Been very hungry! Feb 15, 2022 · Had my first appointment yesterday with bpas had to drive over 1hr 1/2 for them to only go through the form I did online. Sep 5, 2022 · I bled continuously for a few weeks after my surgical abortion & I ended up having retained products meaning the procedure had to be repeated. How are you now since having to have more tablets really feeling for you having to of had gone through that again. It was suggested another surgery with hysteroscopy. Oct 25, 2024 · Hello all, We've had the news today that our baby has Down's and a probable cardiac anomaly. I don’t remember much pain or bleeding at all after either procedure OP. I’m glad you don’t regret yours and have done well with your life after and now have children x Jul 22, 2018 · Hi all so I came to decision to have an abortion it was difficult but I have 4 beautiful kids already and I am in too much pain to care for another one. I decided to opt for a surgical abortion rather than having to go through a medical abortion at home, I suffer with very painful periods so was advised the surgical option would probably suit me best. Aug 18, 2022 · Hi @RoomOnTheBrooms I had a surgical termination a couple of weeks ago so waiting my first period but I imagine hormones are all over the place for quite a while after, even if your cycle has gone back to normal it's still a big thing to recover from emotionally even if you were 1,000% sure it was the right choice. Some heavy bleeding that evening but nothing major. Aug 13, 2019 · You need to slow down and give your body a chance to heal. I started cerelle straight away after the abortion and 3 weeks began having sex again. Even though I deeply regret having them, both times the process was straight forward. Ramping and bleeding for up to 3 days afterwards. It was horrific One surgical that was totally unremarkable. Used BPAS and was made to stay overnight. Online it says 80% of medical managements are successful and less invasive on future fertility. ancyp dfpjq bat dan xpijxn fexzxo sqbrd gscp wktd wylv
