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Still pregnant after abortion mumsnet I have never been as low as I was then in my life (I was also 39). Oct 10, 2022 · Are you meaning to get pregnant again? I totally understand the regret. All very straight forward, small amount of bleeding on the day followed by a honey/caramel coloured discharge everyday since. It came as a complete shock and we both agreed that we didn’t believe we were ready. All the time still feeling the nausea, sore boobs and tiredness it was time to take the pregnant test provided by BPAS, it came back Positive! I knew it I had a feeling I was still pregnant but still knew it could be my hormones causing the result so I waited another week. I was still feeling very unwell (severe pregnancy sickness and high blood pressure: my reasons for not being able to continue with the pregnancy to begin with) after the pills, went back to the clinic who confirmed I was still pregnant. I was 7 weeks pregnant at the time. I was 37 and my children at the time were 12 and 9. I am 41 , so can imagine the surprise when I found out I was pregnant. So now I have a whole week of wondering what the hell has gone on. I had a medical abortion quickly after finding out. i am in my early twenties and dec Jun 26, 2022 · At the start of May, me and my partner found out I was pregnant. I feel so alone right now. I was terrified with this news. Aug 18, 2022 · Hi @RoomOnTheBrooms I had a surgical termination a couple of weeks ago so waiting my first period but I imagine hormones are all over the place for quite a while after, even if your cycle has gone back to normal it's still a big thing to recover from emotionally even if you were 1,000% sure it was the right choice. I think it was around 3 weeks after due to another pregnancy scare (Yes, 18, in an abusive relationship and extremely stupid before anyone judges 🙈). I went through with the termination, and the day after I took the tablets, he ghosted me for a week. How did you feel straight after your abortion and did it take long to come to terms with it afterwards. (I never have indigestion) Made coffee yesterday (as soon as I was pregnant coffee was no longer pleasant but I loveeee coffee when not pregnant) Had to rush to the washroom to throw up after a sip of coffee. Aug 4, 2024 · I didn’t have a period during the time I thought I was still pregnant. I hope you get the result you are wanting Oct 13, 2024 · Which i presume was the pregnancy. Oct 7, 2024 · hi, I had a medical abortion 4 weeks and 1 day ago. Oct 9, 2023 · I was 3 weeks pregnant,I took medical abortion pills,,my cramping was really bad all night I couldn't sleep. Sep 24, 2021 · Told to follow up with a pregnancy test they had given me, 3 weeks after. In this case, the abortion has failed completely and the woman remains pregnant. I was pregnant but had to pause my natural emotions and joy. Nov 25, 2024 · Abortion is such a traumatic and emotional experience but please try and remember you were ok before this and you can be ok after this. Feb 9, 2023 · Hey mumsnet, I am looking for some experiences. I definitely wasn’t mentally prepared for the pain of labour and was ill for 6 weeks after. Oct 15, 2022 · So 5 week today was the abortion. Jan 3, 2024 · Thank you for all the replies, I done the test from the hosptial to confirm the termination worked and it did. I told him straight away and did a test infront of him which came up positive. Had a medical abortion in January this year. the morning/day after my symptoms are still here and i feel i the flutter in my tummy. It come up positive straight away. Feb 23, 2023 · There are lots of other threads on mumsnet of women who have felt similar to you though and very confused as to why they feel like this when they planned being pregnant. Nov 14, 2024 · Thank you. I felt the most horrendous guilt afterwards and was also worried that I would never be able to get pregnant again. 8 mm. i took the first pill on Sunday the 4th at 8+1 days and after 50 mins I was sick so I called the BPAS helpline and they said because it was in my system it should still work. Turns out I was. I took a regular pregnancy test about a week after the low sensitivity pregnancy test given to me by the abortion provider which showed a negative result, and then called my abortion provider. I feel like the ships left the Dock and now feeling so guilty for wanting an abortion a word I never thought I'd say. I took a test on Wednesday as recommended by Marie stopes but it was negative. I had coincidently bought a pack of two tests and I still haven't had a period so thought I would double check and what I think is a faint line has come up! Feb 5, 2024 · Just be honest with him from the start say this is how it is I’m pregnant I know it’s not ideal but I can’t contemplate abortion I hope you understand . You are still early, so you have time to decide, I would definitely take that time to really weigh everything up and consider how you feel. The thought of ending up tied for life to the tosser who got me pregnant is horrific . Quite soon after I had a lot of cramps that would come and go. Jul 2, 2023 · Despite being on the pill I’ve found out I’m pregnant a week after splitting. I can't get into the clinic again until end of next week as they are busy. It sounds like definitely leaning towards keeping the baby and that you’re excited about it. Be kind to yourself x Mar 25, 2024 · A while ago, I found out I was pregnant and he forced me into having an abortion well he didn't force me, but he said he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby if I kept it, and that id never see him again. Nov 8, 2019 · Home pregnancy tests are super sensitive and can pick up quite low levels of HCG (can't remember the exact level). I've been in bed and crying n Jan 19, 2020 · I have 2 children after IVF and fell pregnant 6 weeks after my son was born NATURALLY. This pain remained and became the baseline of my heavy heart. Dec 22, 2022 · As an aside if he was a good and decent partner and person he would support you in making you making this choice for you! Not for him! After all it is your body, and whether you continue this pregnancy or not he can walk away at any time, where as you cannot. Dec 7, 2022 · I felt the same, I really hit the floor and still now 10 months on I wish I could turn back time. I got my negative pregnancy test 21 days after surgery, first ovulated 30 days after the surgery and my period came 43 days after the surgery. Grieve for the pregnancy that did not continue, by all means. Feb 4, 2022 · How are you now since having to have more tablets really feeling for you having to of had gone through that again. We continued to do this even after our other two were born. I have 3dc so know this feeling. But that is to date the next pregnancy, rather than being safe. I took pregnancy test again and it was clear positive. The test 3 week after abortion confirmed its success. Feb 25, 2023 · I had a surgical abortion initially so was never told to do a test at 3 weeks as they're meant to be almost certain everything was removed, just to call back if you still have any problems after 3 weeks. I took the first stage of the medical abortion 10:50am on Wednesday and the second stage (4 vaginal tablets) 11:00 Thursday. It can STILL be the right decision. but the bleeding was very little the clot was in a very small size and that's it,in the morning,the bleeding was very very light. You may also be able to get an ultrasound or blood test to make sure that the abortion worked. Not here to judge at all, I made the same choice to terminate what would have been my third child 7 months ago now. My initial reaction was that I wanted an abortion. Aug 20, 2024 · Hi, im wondering if anyone else have been in this situation. I would never of known I wasn’t Oct 17, 2020 · However due to how mentally stressed I was after weeks of being in limbo over my decision, I took the first tablet the second I got through the door without even thinking about it any further as I couldn’t take it. You’d still be in a room in your parents’ house, only trying to squeeze a baby in. ) If I am still pregnant I would be 17 weeks tomorrow. Could be the leftover tissue and the hcg slowly reducing but also could be a new pregnancy. Oct 11, 2022 · I miscarried earlier this year at 16 weeks, I was told to leave it until after my first period to try again. Pregnancy & baby After Abortion 1 reply Hope9 · 09/02/2023 15:09 Hey mumsnet, I am looking for some Jul 19, 2023 · I administered my medical abortion yesterday at 7 weeks pregnant, taking my second set of pills that enduce the bleeding around 9:10pm. I most certainly don’t feel pregnant. It&#039 Nov 25, 2020 · I felt a bit guilty straight after my abortion but hormones and honestly now I feel nothing (I don't even really think about it unless something like this comes up) - the pain for me was like a bad period, I'd suggest pain killers, hot water bottle, chocolate and a film day - maybe ask someone to look after DD for the day and you take your time to recover May 3, 2024 · My son was 5 months old and we found out I was pregnant. I have been absolutely devastated because I wanted to wait until my 15 month old was at least 3. I'm 35 and 36 soon and after years of disappointment I thought that this news would be what I wanted but its come as a shock and not what me and my husband want anymore. If you are pregnant will these reasons still be valid. That might’ve been due to hormones changing etc. Jun 16, 2024 · Hi all, Just looking for some advise/to get this off my chest. Both went on to keep the remaining pregnancy (although one didnt actually know she was still pregnant until very, very late on in the pregnancy). Midwives strongly suggested she have a surgical abortion as they thought there would be defects. Theyve told me I could still be pregnant. The first set of 4 pills I took was excruciating, with terrible cramping to the point I was scared to take the second two but after they had been put in my cheek I had dull cramping and then went to the toilet, where without being too NSFW or upsetting to Apr 8, 2018 · I had an abortion 3 months ago - my boyfriend pushed me into it very hard and I didn't feel like it was my decision. Mar 26, 2017 · Thats not a reason to have an abortion. Unprotected of course because I had been told I’d been given the injection. I saw the consultant after and she said 6 sections isn't unheard of but not common, said it would be very high risk, and seemed (to me) to be saying abortion would be the better Feb 25, 2019 · I have now found myself obsessed with being pregnant I will always notice pregnant women etc and I know when my due date would Have been and I know how many weeks I would have been now. I was petrified I took the first pill yesturday. I don’t regret it at all. I didnt feel pregnant anymore since all symptoms were gone right away. I was only 4-5 weeks pregnant at the time. After the medical abortion took place at home and I saw the foetus (horrible experience), I regretted the whole thing right Mar 11, 2023 · I am so sorry you are going through the pain right now-- those first few weeks after was the worst time of my whole life. Pregnancy symptoms should go away a few days after your abortion. Contact your abortion provider asap. This is my main worry, how I will feel after. Jun 30, 2024 · Hi. I took the medication and expelled the tissue etc, however a few weeks later I still ‘felt’ pregnant. I forced myself to disconnect. Feb 13, 2019 · About 20 months ago, my partner of a year and I discovered we were pregnant after a split condom and an ineffective morning after pill. I started cerelle straight away after the abortion and 3 weeks began having sex again. So i called the clinic where i recieved treatment and they have booked me in for a scan but thats not until next week. It was a very difficult decision and I kept changing my mind. Please help me if you can. Both of our DC were IVF babies and this pregnancy was unexpected (we were told almost impossible to have natural pregnant by our consultant) but after absolutely agonising over the decision we decided we couldn’t cope with a 3rd baby. He is adamant I have an abortion and wants to attend to prove I go through with it (I do not want him Mar 2, 2022 · I took the test after 3 weeks to confirm wether or not it had worked and there was a faint positive line. Hope you are ok. I believe in a more holistic approach to medicine . There are so many horror stories online which even at my age , filled me with fear. He pressured me into a abortion I cried the whole way to there and during. It has been 5 weeks now since I last had sex. The second pills are taken to expel the pregnancy out. I had an surgical abortion 6weeks+3days ago for personal reasons. I really did. I felt exactly the same as you in the early days. It was just before Christmas and so I had to wait 3 and a half weeks for the appointment. 5 weeks ago. but a week after i have had the abortion, i started having sore breast. 30 - pain was bearable for a couple of hours but I'll be honest, it got really intense for about 3 hours late afternoon, but its not constant, it like waves of cramping so in-between I made sure to have a boiling hot water bottle and took painkillers (I don't think they worked for the first hour) I then passed about 4 clots after Aug 3, 2022 · so I already have a 15 month old who is still co sleeping and still breast feeding all night and in the day) I have found out I’m pregnant. @LittleMermaid1 I am waiting for my counselling to start next week. Five days ago spotting got heavier and I passed these big clot I know that was the pregnancy. Apr 9, 2022 · Basically in February (8weeks ago) I had a medical abortion at 5 weeks pregnant. How many weeks past abortion were you when had to take more tablets? Did you have a scan. Feb 14, 2022 · But if you are in doubt about the possibility of the pregnancy having continued, definitely contact your abortion provider as soon as you can. So the second set of pills, I took at 12. May 18, 2021 · I recently had a medical abortion at home, was almost 6 weeks. You’d still have no money, only with another, expensive mouth to feed. . I was told. Jan 24, 2022 · Hey, sorry I have no experience of abortion so cannot help but I have a consultation on the phone Thursday with MSI. Apr 22, 2022 · The same thing happened to me when I was young. Positive tests, no miscarriage symptoms but also no period. After a lot of soul searching and sadness, we decided not to keep it. And I 100% wanted an abortion. Jul 30, 2019 · The line was faint and small in comparison to the control line but defiently there. Even if you're taking the pills in-clinic i hope my experience can still be helpful for you! Apr 4, 2022 · I had a medical abortion on the 26th Feb this year. Sep 7, 2022 · this was in 2019 and we now have a 2. I had a miscarriage over a year ago and I had taken a morning after pill, I still feel guilt that that was the cause if my miscarriage. He still didn’t believe me, he then started saying if I am it’s not his. Fast forward to last week - I started bleeding very heavily at exactly 4 weeks post medical abortion. I went to my GP and after ultrasound, I got to know that I was 16 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby boy. I was given a pregnancy test to do a week after taking the abortion pills, which was negative. I have had a scan at 12 weeks and the specialist raised enough concern as she couldn't determine the feet and right hand how she wanted to. My husband and I ended up doing the deed on the day of my peak fertility (definitely thought we were way before it, but the OPK said otherwise). it came like the week after my scan and was normal. Still passing clot not as big and still bleeding with cramping like a normal cycle. i am worrying due to health reasons and upcoming treatment unfortunately I had to have an abortion. As for my ex I’ve not heard a thing , in fact he’s blocked my number since he saw I removed him from my socials , I didn’t want to see him living his playboy lifestyle whilst I was suffering daily with this decision . Later found out she was still pregnant. Is there a chance the pregnancy is still Jan 5, 2021 · Have any of you experienced positive pregnancy tests after miscarriage- and was it a false alarm or were you pregnant? I had a miscarriage early December at 5 weeks. I took the pills when I was 7 weeks pregnant, when I went for an ultrasound, the fetus was measuring 12 weeks. I feel okay. It does seem very strong OP. Aug 24, 2023 · I had a medical abortion 5 days ago and my bleeding still hasn't reduced. Nov 14, 2018 · Anyways I had sex with my partner about 3 weeks after that. In theory, the first pill stops the pregnancy, so it may be too late. I rang the clinic back and was laughed at and told there is no that I would still be pregnant after bleeding and cramping. The hardest part was dealing with it mentally but with time I have felt better. Nov 3, 2017 · I had an abortion back in January and it's still affecting my life every single day. Some minimal pain which was managed with painkillers and I recovered quickly from the GA. You can still travel, differently than you planned but we travelled all over the world from when my son was 9 months. Mar 9, 2024 · Hi OP, I'm in a similar situation to you. Nov 29, 2021 · All pregnant women kind of have to do this because even well established couples sometimes break up during pregnancy or soon after a baby is born, but it’s true that you have less experience and info to go on with a new relationship like this one. I bled heavy the week after it and then it was very light second week but for the past 4 days iv been really heavy again! Jul 17, 2022 · Am 4weeks gone, i used miso-fem 2vaginal and 2orally, I had little cramps and I used ibuprofen, I had little and small clot in the first day and not bleeding or clot again, after 48 hours I used miso-fem again, I had little cramps, little bleeding and one very small clot dat day and it stopped, is the abortion successful or not May 23, 2013 · I am not against abortion but I do find it sad as so many women I know who have had then regret them or feel sad about their decision many years later. Same partner we have been together 15 years. I fell pregnant last year accidentally and i knew at the time that having the baby wasn't the right th Aug 20, 2022 · My GP refered me to the EPU at the local hospital for a scan which showed a gestational sac, yolk sac and embryo measuring 1. Anyway felt extreme guilt, cried my eyes out when I took the tablets. Mar 3, 2024 · So I’ve recently had a surgical abortion I was 12 weeks and 3 days I’ve been bleeding for a week and 2 days I very much regret my choice and decision, and for the people who have had surgical abortion and tried to get pregnant straight after I was wondering how long it had taken to conceive again? Feb 5, 2020 · After this she got back to normal life including drinking and smoking at parties. It is a massive change but abortion is something you won’t get over if you have the slight doubt in your head that it’s not the right thing to do . Jun 26, 2023 · Wondering if anyone can help me. I still haven't had sex again as was told to wait 2 weeks. I am 6 weeks and terrified at the thought of a medical abortion. The pregnancy was quite far along and she decided to keep the baby. Nov 19, 2024 · I had a medical abortion (pills by post) just over 3 weeks ago. So I booked an appointment an Jul 11, 2023 · I had a medical abortion 2 weeks ago passed a clot nothing extremely large then the bleeding starting to get light then I was spotting. I also started my adhd meds in the last 3 weeks and have been abit away with the fairy’s… me and my boyfriend stupidly had sex using the pull out method after week 2 I can’t remember when exactly but I assumed all would be ok as I was still slightly bleeding! Apr 26, 2022 · My life after my abortion (in the mid-1990s) has been a million times better than it would have been if I hadn't terminated the pregnancy. I didn’t even need the second lot of tablets (although I still took them) but I passed the pregnancy after the first lot. They did bloods first and my HCG was still 9400… had a scan and although I’d had really heavy bleeding after the abortion meds and passed lots of big clots there was still lots of tissue left and an empty pregnancy sac. Aug 1, 2020 · If you have no idea how far along you are the first step is getting a scan ASAP. May 22, 2020 · However, it did still affect me and I felt sad, I do wonder if it was a boy or girl and to think I could have a three year old right now, but then I wouldn’t have the beautiful baby I have today with the love of my life 💗 my life would be completely different, but I do still think about it now again, 5 months is still pretty raw! Aug 20, 2022 · I had a medical abortion 5 weeks ago now. Boobs are still tender (not as bad) and i am running to the toiler (but I am prone to UTI's) is this normal? I have had a a lot of bleeding which is now tailing off. 4mm still no detectable HB. There have sadly been many people who have become very unwell, and even a case of a woman who sadly died, due to taking the pills when being further along in pregnancy than they thought they were. And likewise, many, many, women don’t. Apr 8, 2017 · Hi, I had a surgical abortion 5 weeks ago and am still waiting for my first period. I was just getting weak day by day. all i would say is that the absolute desperate desire to have a child immediately after a termination is somewhat biological and feels almost animalistic. ) May 31, 2024 · I told the nurse and still went ahead with the termination. I’ve not had much bleeding. But you had your reasons for the termination. At the time of my abortion, telemedicine (pills-by-post) was an option for women up to 10weeks pregnant. Aug 2, 2019 · Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. I had a medical abortion a week ago. The last 4/5 days I have been feeling twitches and a fluttering feeling, that remind me of early movements. And then it was normal every month after that. Like a heavy period. I still haven’t got my first period and was wondering how long after a medical abortion should I get my period. Aug 12, 2023 · So 3 weeks ago I had a medical abortion, today Iv tested positive on a clear blue digital it says 1-2 weeks, iv panicked and got another clear blue and there is a slight line. Apr 23, 2024 · Abortion is incredibly safe and effective, so it’s really rare that you’ll still be pregnant after an in-clinic abortion or taking abortion pills. It’s all down to finances unfortunately. You have so much more to see and do and experience in life and you have people in your life who love and value you. I took the next set of 4 tablets the next day and I cried after doing it as I knew there was no going back. Mar 19, 2024 · It’s possible to become pregnant again very soon after your abortion; an egg can be released as early as 8 days after the procedure, which means you could become pregnant again before you even have your next period. I was only just over 5 weeks pregnant so didn’t expect it to be quite this much, the blood is still quite red and sometimes a bit gunge like , should I be expecting it to taper off now? Mar 14, 2023 · Hi I sadly took the decision to terminate my pregnancy 3 weeks ago with a medical abortion at home . It settled down after the first 2 months and within 6 months I was back to my usual self. i do have moments of sadness about who the Aug 2, 2019 · Hi OP, I feel your pain i really do I also had an abortion 5 months ago and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do! I still feel broken from it (although better than I was in the first few months) and although I didn’t really have another choice because of the relationship I was in and my own personal finances I still find myself thinking about my baby and how I would look now etc Aug 4, 2024 · I have no one else to speak to, no females I can confide in. Have had period cramps, tender pelvic area and brown discharge for Apr 14, 2020 · I was left standing alone in unbearable pain and at this point I was 4 weeks gone, so very hormonal and sensitive. At 3 weeks I was still bleeding, pregnancy symptoms had massively eased off but hadn't gone entirely so I gave them a call for some advice Dec 10, 2020 · Hi everyone, I am really wanting my 3rd baby now but I'm sorry worried my surgical abortion has effected my ability to carry a baby :(I have two beautiful children ages 3&5 I had no problems carrying them, then I fell pregnancy in may 2019 but due to severe sickness I wasn't able to look after my children and depression soon kicked in, I wasn't thinking clearly and I got rid of my baby :( I Apr 7, 2024 · I had a negative test quick quickly after my medical abortion. It was never really heavy but it's still as bad as it was the day Sep 1, 2022 · I was around 5 weeks and a few days pregnant when i had my abortion. Today made coffee again & the smell made me nauseous. Even if you bleed, you can still have a continuing pregnancy. Pregnancy test still positive after 2 weeks. I just felt tired for the 2 days after but think a lot of that was from the emotion of it all. I couldn’t function at all. Jan 4, 2019 · Hi all, I had a 13 week surgical abortion after a lot of thought at the end of November. I was two months gone by then and had no idea. Mar 26, 2024 · I went on to have another baby-). Dec 5, 2017 · OP I felt horrific in the first two months after my abortion. I’m still in two minds whether to keep the baby or not. Apr 12, 2021 · I had a medical abortion at 6+4 earlier this year. Follow-up examinations (2 weeks after operation) detected failed abortion in 22% of cases. I decided within 5 mins of finding out Sep 23, 2024 · I thought I would share my experience of a medical abortion at 5 weeks using EMAH method. Mar 6, 2023 · Hi, please I need help I had a surgical abortion 06/17/23 was 5weeks + 3 days since I had that after 3 days have been feelings pregnancy symptoms more and more, my boobs getting bigger, I can’t eat, morning sickness, vomit. Aug 13, 2024 · Get yourself seen as soon as possible. I still haven't had my period and me and my partner are trying to get pregnant again, we had been trying 2 days after the abortion. After advice or similar experiences please. But my health was not getting any better. I have 2 children already; aged 3 and 2. It was the worst decision and experience of my life. the baby is now 3 months old and i am very thank ful for another chance. Pregnancy tests after abortion pills Jul 9, 2023 · Extreme indigestion after eating just small amounts of food. Please sort out contraception, get something long term like a coil or implant. Jan 15, 2021 · No cramping, tiny bit of bleeding that day but hardly anything. I called the clinic they put me in an appointment in 3 days. Went to the clinic Wednesday had my first tablet, took the second set 24 hours later nothing happened within 3 hours so took the 3rd set of tablets about half an hour after this start cramping nothing more than bad period pains, went to the loo every 15 mins and passed clots 3 times, didn’t want to look so not sure if I definitely passed pregnancy Jan 2, 2020 · I had a normal period and a late positive pregnancy test on my first pregnancy, it turned out to be ectopic but the gp said it is normal for some people to bleed heavily at implantation and it can happen on and off for weeks. was a really hard time of my life regardless. Sickness instantly stopped. Had a medical abortion through BPAS who were really helpful. Had unprotected sex 3rd Oct, the ladies at BPAS said my cycle started again the day after abortion so by that, I shouldn’t have been ovulating but where is my period. It was relatively pain free and I wasn’t sick. Nov 19, 2024 · Hi, I found out I was pregnant yesterday (our 4th cycle trying) and I had an abortion at 5 weeks after falling pregnant pretty much exactly a year ago. He took me for an early reassurance scan the next day. Apr 21, 2022 · Hey guys. 5 yr old DS , I fell pregnant about 5 months after the abortion and I can honestly say that if I hadn’t had DS I don’t think I would be here now. Jun 15, 2022 · @Anon7744885 thanks for replying, it’s good to hear I’m not the only one with children already and considering an abortion. I feel very 'worn out'. Mar 1, 2021 · Hopefully not your case, in these 2 people I knew both had been unknowingly pregnant with twins and had lost one due to the abortion and the other stuck. I feel super scared right now and even more irresponsible than before. No doubt, many, many, women have instantly regretted it. I had a 9month old when I fell pregnant and we would have had an 18m age gap. Dec 10, 2019 · Hi all, I had a medical abortion last Wednesday and am a little bit surprised at how much I’m still bleeding 6 days later. Early detection and diagnosis of failed abortion is necessary to avoid the more complex procedures required in later stages of pregnancy. I've just done a test today almost 4 weeks after the termination and it had a faint positive line, I then done another and it was the same and I'm worried I've became pregnant again but hoping it is just my hormones still in my body. I will be 39 this year and have a 10yr old so felt too old for babies. Sep 8, 2021 · @SudokuZebra I don’t believe in medication for depression , I’m bipolar and I’m un medicated. I found out 18 months ago I was pregnant with my 3rd child. Apr 23, 2024 · If you get your abortion pills from a health care provider like Planned Parenthood, they may give you a special, extra-sensitive pregnancy test to use later to make sure the abortion worked. I'd say you might have some retained placenta in there which you'll find out on Friday I presume. Before taking these tablets I was definitely starting to feel pregnant. I told my 2nd pregnancy test last saturday and there was a very very faint line. I got pregnant on purpose weeks after the abortion. Mar 18, 2024 · I’m 41, I’ve got 2 lovely DC aged 5 and 3 and a supportive DH. If you think the pain of an abortion is bad then you will be in for a shock with labour and the weeks of pain after it. Bleeding continued, symptoms remained (although not so bad) & pregnancy test still positive. I found out last week the tablets didn’t work so I’m still pregnant and don’t know what to do. Within an hour of inserting the tablets vaginally, I began heavy bleeding, lots of different sized clots and severe cramping. First i just thought its my body being confused, but then nausea came. Mar 20, 2023 · I think it’s completely safe to get pregnant straight after an abortion. But do not invalidate the reasons your head, as you say, made at the time. I was told not to have sex whilst I was still bleeding due to the risk of infection if the cervix was still open slightly and to test after 2 weeks to check it's negative. I know they can take a while to return but in a few days it’ll be about 7 weeks since my termination and I’m getting so paranoid that I’m pregnant again. I've never wanted kids and when I found out I was pregnant I was immediately 100% certain I wanted an abortion. I'm so glad I was able to terminate the pregnancy and live my life without him. I was in pieces the weeks before the abortion, I was ashamed, Terrified and completely torn in my decision. Sep 7, 2023 · I am still getting the odd cramping feeling, it’s been 3 weeks since the bleeding stopped and I and hopeful my period is on the way now. We made the decision to terminate the pregnancy. My pregnancy tests were still coming back as positive 4-5 weeks after my miscarriage. Patients who said they still felt pregnant were ignored in 1/2 the cases. This was mainly because we were relocating to the other side of the world 6 weeks after we found out. I was 7 weeks. I am still having bleeding - though not a lot but it's still present. Mar 16, 2018 · I continued to bleed lightly for about 2 weeks. My partner and I are facing an unplanned pregnancy at a time when we are still in rented accommodation, and my divorce has not yet come through (it is taking a very very long time. Jun 27, 2023 · Hi. Jan 17, 2021 · I know you say the baby would have brought positivity but you still would have lost your job and you’d still be job hunting, only while pregnant. But my tummy has reduced significantly, my breast no longer hurt. Jul 10, 2022 · i had my medical abortion at 5 weeks - 4 weeks & 2 days ago (from miso dose) my periods are normally always around 28 days. You need one after termination, and one a few days after, and if the number is less it means that the action was a success. My best friend didnt find out she was pregnant until she was 29 weeks (shocking i know) but she smoked, she drank, she was on medication you arent allowed to take in pregnancy. Mar 10, 2024 · Hi, so I had a medical abortion just over 5 weeks ago. I fell pregnant using contraception, my son is 2 and my daughter was 5 months when I fell pregnant and not long over 6 months when I had the abortion. Told to go back in 10 days to re asses as still not clear. After that I've been experiencing some cramps and bleeding heavier. Has anyone had any experiences of getting pregnant so soon after a abortion or is it most likley i will get my period first. Jan 23, 2023 · Hello! HONEST REVIEW. Jun 14, 2022 · had an abortion at the end of march, I think I was roughly 5 weeks. Sep 5, 2023 · Had a medical abortion 2. Sep 6, 2021 · Abortion has been mentioned, I went for an emergency scan today when I realised, scan showed 9 weeks healthy baby with a heartbeat, implanted in the right place. I took another normal pregnancy test and that came up a strong yes. It will be my 5th week tomorrow still bleeding although very Jul 3, 2024 · Mine failed after rather painful contractions and passing of a big clot. Also if you can speak to your GP asap. Mar 23, 2021 · I'm currently 5 weeks with a planned pregnancy. to go back after a week (today) was re scanned and the sac was well defined and embryo had grown to 2. Nov 15, 2017 · Will it take longer to get pregnant after an abortion? If your abortion went well and there were no complications, it won't have any impact on your future fertility. Had a scan yesterday which showed some retained products - not sure how much but she said it wasn’t terrible! I’m booked in for surgery next week with a scan first incase it has changed. Experts say that the majority of women who've had an abortion in the past go on to have a healthy pregnancy in the future. Nov 22, 2023 · I had an abortion almost 6 weeks ago when I was 8 weeks pregnant. This didn't hurt at all. Aug 16, 2024 · i thought it worked the days after. Do not accept the pills by post system without a scan first. I’d say definitely when it’s been 4 weeks ring the clinic but even sometimes they say that it’ll go down and if you have to go back for a scan they make you redo a test on that morning before you go cause one day the test could be positive and the next day not x makes sure you’re doing it with first morning wee as Oct 30, 2023 · Please be gentle with me. So basically I’m still waiting on my period. I hope this continues to be an option even when covid is not around anymore. This was two weeks ago. I really hope you can feel better soon. Jan 27, 2021 · @YnysMon20 I’ve had the same thing I was 9 weeks I bled a lot passing clots everything was fine until I took a test two weeks later it was positive but the line was faint I don’t feel pregnant but I’m still having the urge to wee I had a scan few days after my abortion they said the baby wasn’t there and I just have left over clots but what I don’t get is why am I still weeing a lot Jul 4, 2018 · So here it goes, on the 6th June I had a medical abortion after being told I could be pregnant with twins and one off which was in my fallopian tube (all turned out to be normal and just one). When I was 18 I fell pregnant unexpectedly. Jun 22, 2021 · You should feel "less pregnant" in two days and your boobs should hurt considerably less in 5 days. After the procedure I was fine. I made a last minute choice to terminate the pregnancy after going back and forth for weeks. I have an appointment booked to take my first pill next Wednesday and I'm absolutely dreading it. It doesn’t help his sister is pregnant and due next month and only 22 we both found out at the same time and it makes me feel shit !. I have had 2 negative pregnancy tests since the abortion though. But that’s the heart side of me, the reasons why I made the decision still stand, I wanted to give my two children and elderly mum the best they could have - mostly that being my time, not material things although looking at our energy bills now I have no idea how we’d have managed with mat leave. My partner and I both were of the decision , this wasn't right for us and went down the EMAH road. I've counted back and I would be about 17 weeks by now. Mar 28, 2022 · I had a medical abortion 2 weeks ago after finding out I was pregnant with twins. I didn't even realise abortions could fail. 5 weeks after had my first period it was heavy gloopy and smallish clots, sorry for TMI Oct 4, 2022 · I'd say after a week it's normal for any test to still be positive (depending on how far along you were) so I wouldn't worry yet, test again next week and should be a noticeable difference, they say to test after 3 weeks so if it's still positive at that point then call whoever provided the pills & they can advise on what to do. dont get me wrong the pregnancy was hard mentally as was paniced that something would be wrong (i still have days when i do) but i also knew that i would have been worried with any pregnancy. It was done at home and the pregnancy test after 3 weeks showed it was negative. I found myself pregnant when I was on 5 week I get panicked and I try to terminate my baby but my abortion is failed and I get clots and bleeding but not that much I took one oral and two in vagina tablet name is breeky eni how I have some very personal reason so I don’t want to continue right now but when I went to Dr she checked me very well I don’t tell her that I took pill but Jul 21, 2019 · This was my test 24 days after the abortion if it makes you feel better. On the 6th of October (so 3 weeks ago yesterday) I had a surgical abortion. Jan 17, 2023 · Hi, I completed my termination on Thursday. I have been pregnant 3 times before and definitely feels like that rather than wind or something. Oct 28, 2020 · Hi all. 2 hours after the second pills I had strong Cramps and 3 plum sized clots with some heavy bleeding that lasted 2-3 hours. We argued though, I said I wasn’t comfortable having a baby until he showed more effort with my son and he said he would not live with me unless I got rid of my dog (I’ve had him 7 years). May 9, 2024 · I thought the abortion was successful. Feb 18, 2022 · I'd just got a big promotion when I became pregnant with my second and I can honestly say that being pregnant made no difference whatsoever. Aug 10, 2022 · (I know it sounds crazy but it definitely feels like movement/banging. Jul 28, 2019 · I’ve not used this before but feel I have no one to talk to. What does your DH say? Jan 22, 2021 · Three weeks ago I had a medical abortion because the discovery of a surprise pregnancy took me completely aback. i know i went quite crazy- even looking at sperm donation on the Feb 22, 2021 · We split soon after. I think the following month my cycle was 39 days, then 35 days. I’ve recently had a medical abortion and I have never regretted anything more in my life. I felt pushed into an abortion by parents etc I didn’t think clearly about what I was doing and it all happened so fast. A continuing pregnancy is a pregnancy that continues to develop even after the use of Mifepristone and Misoprostol. Fast forward 2-3 weeks, I did the test BPAS sent me and it came back negative. Aug 23, 2023 · Hi I had a medical termination six weeks ago, I done a low sensitivity test 3 weeks after which was negative ( did it in the late afternoon with a dribble of urine ) I have had positive store bought tests since and today I done a clear blue digital which says pregnant 1-2, could this be a new pregnancy as I had unprotected intercourse a week after the abortion but used the POM and had the Mar 16, 2022 · I have one child who is 8 years old and we are best friends. Failed medical abortion? Apr 19, 2021 · HI, I am probably over thinking this but I had a medical abortion 9 days ago and still 'feel' pregnant. I expected it to be a bit irregular but it still doesn’t stop me from worrying! I took a pregnancy test yesterday which was negative after my TOP pregnancy test last week which was also negative. I was just over 6 weeks pregnant. as per now I hardly wear a pad,a pant liner is enough and its just a day since I did the abortion,,am worried it might not be successful please advice me guys Jul 1, 2021 · You may have some tissue left inside still from the first one if you have not had a period yet as the abortion was not that long ago this may be why there is still a positive result I had one in lockdown in October (non surgical ) and it took about 8+weeks before I got a negative result and my first period didn’t come till after that Oct 24, 2023 · When I found out I was pregnant last time he was excited, nervous but excited. Just cramps now and again but only mild. Still don’t feel myself and I will be nervous until I get my period! But I don’t feel like there is anything left now, and a negative pregnancy test finally put my mind at ease. May 26, 2022 · Hi hope you’re ok. I would also go back and change my decision although the reasons were valid they no longer feel as important as they did at the time. Only bleed for a week and had strong cramps for just the one day that I took the medical abortion pill. You will get there. Due to the virus the only way your able to have an abortion at the moment is via the pill. Nov 3, 2017 · You made a decision for sound reasons; terminating a pregnancy for reasons that are right for you does not preclude a feeling of regret or guilt. Jul 5, 2020 · I started using ovulation sticks after I got a negative pregnancy test as you can't ovulate until all the hgc is gone. I waited another week but was still getting a very positive test so contacted my EPU. Jul 27, 2024 · The 24 week cut off is the cut off for termination for any reason at all, it is still possible to terminate after this time but there must be certain criteria, you may meet this criteria based on the risk this pregnancy poses to you and your health and mental health. I feel terrible however I know Iv made the right decision as I work full time and my son is quite poorly. Sep 4, 2023 · Hi everyone, I had a medical abortion 4 weeks ago this coming Saturday, everything (so I think) seemed to go as it should, I started bleeding the following day after the pills which I took the evening before and bled a heavy ish period for around a week/ week and a half. Then in April, I didn't get my periods. He is now 15 and absolutely fine! Jul 24, 2019 · @Bloodycats I believe it was related to the abortion although they never said specifically. Im very stressed and confused. Thought it was my period coming back, blood got heavier with lots of gushing & palm-sized clots. it was a strange experience. Im over a week post treatment now and still hardly had any bleeding at all. Some women like to take HCB (beta) hormone blood tests to control for pregnancy. Some women even have full periods the whole pregnancy! Jun 15, 2022 · The abortion failed to find out I was still pregnant at 10 weeks with a follow up scan and told baby was 'doing everything it needs to do' healthy and active. upkfnb jlulv daytj gxbpw qbet cqlqvc trnxl kdme hnieymk rmduho